Monday, December 22, 2008

Fashion For Men

This week I am going to start adding information that I’ve learned about fashion for men. There are some great sites and magazines out there that cater to men’s style, but they sometimes provide conflicting advice and confusing styles. My goal is to get you to start from the bottom up and figure out what your style is and work it from there.

I must add the caveat that I am no fashion expert and never went to school for fashion or art. I just love doing my thing and I’ve listened to the right folks and will always have my ear to the tracks to see what’s next. That being said…

WORKING IT IN NASHVILLE
Nashville is an entertainment city, so if you want to stand out, it will be harder than Kansas City or Seattle. A lot of folks repeat the same look over and over in our city, but it is generally fashion forward unless you look toward New York or LA. I give a lot of the credit to the Buckle who has popularized an easy to do, yet good look. Am I tired of Affliction and Ed Hardy shirts? Yes! Are they better than the fleece/North Face, oversized t-shirt, LL Bean denim? Hands down, it is better. At least Affliction was cutting edge at one point and is still a good look if done right.

What I am trying to say is Nashville has a lot of good role models for men who want to dress well. But if you copy someone off the street, how do you know you are copying a good or a bad role model?

ROLE MODELS
More than likely, whoever you want to dress like will have copied their style from someone else. I will even go as far as to say that if a person is very cutting edge in Nashville, no one will understand and you will not want to copy them. If you are copying runway fashion from this year, you may be cutting edge, but you will get a lot of looks that represent misunderstanding. People will look and maybe laugh because they don’t understand and for street/real world fashion, this is, in my opinion, not good. Just look at what happened to Bjork and her swan dress… She was crucified. If that was a runway show, no one would have blinked an eye. So, realize, every style has a time and place.

PICK WISELY
So, how do you pick a role model? I suggest you write down some important parts of your identity. Make a list of your career, hobbies, goals, and dreams. Is it sexy like a rock star or do you have more of a corporate identity, trying to climb the ladder? When you figure what identity you have, look around for guys who fit into that mold. Which ones are standing tall, confident, and command an almost superpower of attracting people toward him? When he is at a bar or club, lots of people are around him. At work, people are always asking him for advice and chatting with him. He may have an ability to get out of trouble or management tends to overlook his mistakes more than the average worker. None of this is hard and fast criteria, but it may be helpful. But honestly, how often do you see Donald Trump in pleated kakis? Never. Bill Gates on the other hand, might not be the best role model for high fashion. Trump cares, however, Gates doesn’t care much about fashion. So, pick wisely.


Example 1: This is a look you will see me copying, for Ewan McGregor is about my age and he tends to dress more like a professional with sharp lines and a little bit of flash. The scarf, with the stripes on the jacket make this look work.

Example 2: The drummer from the band Interpol is another one of my role models for fashion. This look comes off as almost gangster and you know he would stand out in any environment. After I started wearing a fedora, people always recognize me and think they know me from somewhere. These things tell you that you are doing something right.

TO DO
I will get into more specifics with future blogs, but for now I will leave it at this. Figure out your identity and find some great role models that are congruent with that identity and start copying. Just make sure you pick the right people to model your look after.

Look in GQ, on the web, and other sources for pictures of actors and entertainment people who fit your identity. Then copy their look and if you feel good, tweak it. I’ll also get into how you can do this on the cheap in the near future.

Thursday, December 11, 2008

2008 MAC AIDS Benefit

I was young, but I clearly recall my aunt talking with my dad about this strange illness my cousin had that no one could diagnose. This was probably 1983 or '84. He lived in Long Beach, CA, while I lived in Nashville, so I only heard about his quick spiral into poor health from bits and pieces of my parents' conversations over the phone with Aunt Lillian and Uncle Ralph.

In 1985 AIDS killed my cousin before much was known about the spread and treatment of HIV. More than 20 years later there is still no cure, but HIV does not always mean AIDS and certain death. This is where the MAC AIDS Fund steps in to take care of people living with HIV and AIDS. Alicia Schenk organized the 2008 MAC AIDS Benefit setting up an entertainment line up with some of the most interesting and coolest acts in Nashville. As you can see from the video, we all had a great time and everything turned out so beautiful and stylish. You can see pictures from the event photographer at www.pictage.com/580660 .



Nashville CARES was there distributing information, for their food pantry gets lots of donations from the MAC AIDS Fund and they are totally local, which is great for this city. It seems that things are so good in Nashville, that, according to local doctors, they don't see cases where people living with HIV go without the right care if they seek it out. It is because events like the MAC AIDS Benefit are so well put together they can't help but bring a crowd. After word of mouth from this year's benefit gets out, next years will probably be even more successful.



Contact Nasvhille CARES: http://www.nashvillecares.org/

MAC AIDS Fund: http://www.macaidsfund.org/

for additional information.



2008 MAC AIDS Benefit: Kiss for Life from Jake Stein on Vimeo.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Blogging Illness...

Okay, the blog is not ill, but Jake was this past week. So, we need a little extra time to put this weeks blog together. In return for the delay, I'll let you know my favorite Thai restaurant in North America. Yes, I've tried Thai from Australia to Nashville, Vancouver to Chicago and the best Thai I've ever tasted is Thai Taste on Haywood Lane near where it crosses with Nolensville Road. In addition, it is a family restaurant and not expensive at all. I don't think they even know how good they are even though they've been voted best in Nashville several years. Don't get me wrong, that place in Australia I paid $50 for one dish was amazing, but it just didn't stack up to Thai Taste.

I am hoping I get an interview with the Thai Taste family soon. I think they know me, for I have been eating there for over 7 years.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Kustom Thrills Tattoo

The mainstream art community rarely looks at tattoos, but those days are changing I feel. Some excellent artists exist that use skin as their primary canvas. Tattooists range from the exclusive artist type to the person who simply puts flash, or pre-drawn images, on a person. Kustom Thrills caters more toward the people looking for a design that is unique and totally personal. I heard over and over from each tattooist, that they love the way owner, Chris Saint Clark, runs Kustom Thrills because it encourages creativity from the second you walk through the doors. It even has a space dedicated as a gallery for more traditional art.

Almost every inch of the place is covered in pop culture and counter culture pieces, and they have a pinball machine to play if you finish looking at what they have displayed. It brought me back a little, to when I was in the Nashville punk scene in the late ‘80s and early ‘90s, so I thought some old school rockabilly punk would set the tone for the video, thus the Cramps.

Even if you don’t desire a tattoo, Kustom Thrills has clothing and does body piercing and I am sure much of the art is for sale. Visit them in East Nashville at 1000 Main Street. It seems a ton of people in town already have, for I now ask everyone with a tattoo where they got them… Many have at least one from Kustom Thrills and many of those have their next visit planned. You can also visit them on line at: http://www.kustomthrills.com .


Kustom Thrills from Jake Stein on Vimeo.